Girls Am I being to harsh???Looking for best answer? Just trying to get different ideas. Please Help me?

heck no i would come up with somethings other then what you are suggestings. i would make him do everything, hot bath, a full body mage, pedicure, new jammie pants and all that is great, but i would be making sure he is making dinner, getting you drinks all day, and i would make him wear a giants shirt or something on it...